Cash+and+Gifts

====Although it might sound selfish, I think I would enjoy if people brought money and gifts to the reception ceremony. I mean, it obviously wouldn't be a requirement to attend, but it would be a nice thought for the guests to do. With the economy being so bad, it is hard for a young married couple to start off their life without help from those around them.Also, if I'm planning on having a huge wedding, anyone that attends can bring whatver they'd like, preferabbly money because they don't have any idea what I might already have gotten. I would probably have a bridal shower too, so that my closest friends can come and give their warmest wishes, and best of luck to my husband and I.====